[GR-54978] [GR-59135 ] Report unrecognized/ill-formed hosted options in NI driver

[graalvmbot]

This PR greatly improves reporting of unknown or ill-formed hosted options in the driver.
For a bougus command line like native-image -H:UnlockExperimentalVMOptions -H:+UnlockExperimentalOptions -H:-StaticExecutable -H:-UnlockExerimentalVMOptions --macro:jvmcicompiler-library, instead of showing incorrect & misleading results like

Warning: The option '-H:+UnlockExperimentalOptions' is experimental and must be enabled via '-H:+UnlockExperimentalVMOptions' in the future.
Warning: The option '-H:+UnlockExerimentalVMOptions' is experimental and must be enabled via '-H:+UnlockExperimentalVMOptions' in the future.

that make the user think those are actual NI options, we now get

Error: Ill-formed native-image hosted-option '-H:UnlockExperimentalVMOptions' ('=' missing after option name) from command line

after fixing the command line we show

Error: Unrecognized option '-H:UnlockExperimentalOptions' from command line. Did you mean one of these: '-H:±UnlockExperimentalVMOptions'. Use '--expert-options' (see also '--help-extra') to list all available options.

Any hosted option that the builder does not support is immediately reported. The driver now also provides suggestions how to fix options that are misspelled or have invalid syntax. And all of that happens without ever calling the builder.