chore: capping mechanism for relay and service connections #6163

Job	Run time
changes	5s
build-ubuntu-22.04	19m 49s
build-macos-13	18m 26s
test-ubuntu-22.04	29m 19s
test-macos-13	29m 25s
build-docker-image / docker-build-ubuntu-22.04	4m 38s
js-waku-node-optional / node	1m 7s
js-waku-node / node	24m 34s
Lint	39s
	2h 8m 2s

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